If you’re an animal lover, you know that your pets can have a big impact on your relationships. A study by TrustedHousesitters found that many pet owners would end a relationship if their pet didn’t approve of their partner. So, how can you tell if your furry friend likes your lover? Veterinarian Rebecca MacMillan has some tips.
First, it’s important to introduce your pet and your partner sensitively and on neutral territory. Keep interactions positive with plenty of fuss, walks, and play. Here are some signs that your pet might not be a fan of your partner:
1. Marking Territory: If your pet is soiling outside of their litter box or showing destructive behaviors like chewing or scratching, they may be trying to establish territory or communicate displeasure. Instead of punishing them, focus on positive interactions and maintaining a consistent routine.
2. Body Language: Watch for signs of fear, anxiety, or discomfort like a tucked tail, pinned back ears, or hunched body posture when your partner is around.
3. Aggressive or Avoidance Behaviors: Growling, hissing, or avoiding your partner could indicate that your pet is not comfortable. Some pets may even become aggressive if they feel threatened.
4. Stress-Related Health Issues: Excessive grooming, vomiting, or diarrhea when your partner is around could be signs of stress. Consult your vet for advice on how to help your pet.
5. Your partner is pushing for an intro: Forcing your pet to interact with your partner could make things worse. Let the interactions happen on your pet’s terms and keep them short and positive.
Remember, your pet’s happiness and well-being should be a priority in any relationship. So, pay attention to their behavior and reactions to ensure a harmonious home for everyone involved.